Sling
Benefits
• Slings are
great for settling small babies: your
movement simulates their experience in the womb
and your child is calmed by your soothing presence and
the sound of your heart beating.
• Nurture Slings promote healthy spinal development in
infants. They don't put stress on baby's spines, unlike
some other popular "brand" front baby carriers. Many
popular front carriers leave your baby's legs to
dangle, placing pressure in all the wrong places of the
back and spine.
• By evenly distributing your baby’s weight across your
back, the sling stays supportive and comfortable enough
to wear all day whilst walking, cooking, shopping,
cleaning etc. You can also still carry your backpack or
shoulder bag whilst out on the move.
(see
picture of Ben)
• The deep pouch of the sling provides mothers
with privacy to discretely breastfeed in public,
even handsfree!
• Your child can choose how much he/she wants to take
in and learn from the world. The Nurture Sling, unlike
most other front carriers, gives your child the
option to look away, or at you, when in need of a break
from all the learning and observing. Therefore your
child does not have to be exposed to too many
influences too early and can actually choose to rest
when tired.
5 very
good reasons to carry your baby
Quoted from Dr.Sears at
http://www.askdrsears.com;
(Author of "Attachment Parenting", alongside Martha
Sears).
1.
Sling babies
cry less.
2.
Sling babies
learn more.
3.
Sling babies
are more organized.
4.
Sling babies
get "humanized" earlier.
5.
Sling babies
are smarter.
1.
Sling babies
cry less. Parents in
my practice commonly report, "As long as I wear her,
she's content!" Parents of fussy babies who try
babywearing relate that their babies seem to forget to
fuss. This is more than just my own impression. In
1986, a team of pediatricians in Montreal reported on a
study of ninety-nine mother-infant pairs. The first
group of parents were provided with a baby carrier and
assigned to carry their babies for at least three extra
hours a day. They were encouraged to carry their
infants throughout the day, regardless of the state of
the infant, not just in response to crying or fussing.
In the control, or noncarried group, parents were not
given any specific instructions about carrying. After
six weeks, the infants who received supplemental
carrying cried and fussed 43 percent less than the
noncarried group.
Anthropologists who travel throughout the world
studying infant-care practices in other cultures agree
that infants in babywearing cultures cry much less. In
Western culture we measure a baby's crying in hours,
but in other cultures, crying is measured in minutes.
We have been led to believe that it is "normal" for
babies to cry a lot, but in other cultures this is not
accepted as the norm. In these cultures, babies are
normally "up" in arms and are put down only to sleep –
next to the mother. When the parent must attend to her
own needs, the baby is in someone else's arms.
2.
Sling babies
learn more.
If infants spend less time crying and fussing, what do
they do with the free time? They learn! Sling babies
spend more time in the state of quiet alertness . This
is the behavioral state in which an infant is most
content and best able to interact with his environment.
It may be called the optimal state of learning for a
baby. Researchers have also reported that carried
babies show enhanced visual and auditory alertness.
The behavioral state of quiet alertness also gives
parents a better opportunity to interact with their
baby. Notice how mother and baby position their faces
in order to achieve this optimal visually interactive
plane. The human face, especially in this position, is
a potent stimulator for interpersonal bonding. In the
kangaroo carry, baby has a 180-degree view of her
environment and is able to scan her world. She learns
to choose, picking out what she wishes to look at and
shutting out what she doesn't. This ability to make
choices enhances learning. A sling baby learns a lot in
the arms of a busy caregiver.
3.
Sling babies
are more organized.
It's easier to understand babywearing when you think of
a baby's gestation as lasting eighteen months – nine
months inside the womb and at least nine more months
outside. The womb environment automatically regulates
baby's systems. Birth temporarily disrupts this
organization. The more quickly, however, baby gets
outside help with organizing these systems, the more
easily he adapts to the puzzle of life outside the
womb. By extending the womb experience, the babywearing
mother (and father) provides an external regulating
system that balances the irregular and disorganized
tendencies of the baby. Picture how these regulating
systems work. Mother's rhythmic walk, for example,
(which baby has been feeling for nine months) reminds
baby of the womb experience. This familiar rhythm,
imprinted on baby's mind in the womb, now reappears in
the "outside womb" and calms baby. As baby places her
ear against her mother's chest, mother's heartbeat,
beautifully regular and familiar, reminds baby of the
sounds of the womb. As another biological regulator,
baby senses mother's rhythmic breathing while worn
tummy- to-tummy, chest-to-chest. Simply stated, regular
parental rhythms have a balancing effect on the
infant's irregular rhythms. Babywearing "reminds" the
baby of and continues the motion and balance he enjoyed
in the womb.
What may happen if the baby spends most of his time
lying horizontally in a crib, attended to only for
feeding and comforting, and then again separated from
mother? A newborn has an inherent urge to become
organized, to fit into his or her new environment. If
left to his own resources, without the regulating
presence of the mother, the infant may develop
disorganized patterns of behavior: colicky cries, jerky
movements, disorganized self-rocking behaviors, anxious
thumb sucking, irregular breathing, and disturbed
sleep. The infant, who is forced to self-calm, wastes
valuable energy he could have used to grow and develop.
While there is a variety of child-rearing theories,
attachment researchers all agree on one thing: In order
for a baby's emotional, intellectual, and physiological
systems to function optimally, the continued presence
of the mother, as during babywearing, is a necessary
regulatory influence.
4.
Sling babies
get "humanized" earlier.
Another reason that babywearing enhances learning is
that baby is intimately involved in the caregiver's
world. Baby sees what mother or father sees, hears what
they hear, and in some ways feels what they feel.
Carried babies become more aware of their parents'
faces, walking rhythms, and scents. Baby becomes aware
of, and learns from, all the subtle facial expressions,
body language, voice inflections and tones, breathing
patterns, and emotions of the caregiver. A parent will
relate to the baby a lot more often, because baby is
sitting right under her nose. Proximity increases
interaction, and baby can constantly be learning how to
be human. Carried babies are intimately involved in
their parents' world because they participate in what
mother and father are doing. A baby worn while a parent
washes dishes, for example, hears, smells, sees, and
experiences in depth the adult world. He is more
exposed to and involved in what is going on around him.
Baby learns much in the arms of a busy person.
5.
Sling babies
are smarter.
Environmental experiences stimulate nerves to branch
out and connect with other nerves, which helps the
brain grow and develop. Babywearing helps the infant's
developing brain make the right connections. Because
baby is intimately involved in the mother and father's
world, she is exposed to, and participates in, the
environmental stimuli that mother selects and is
protected from those stimuli that bombard or overload
her developing nervous system. She so intimately
participates in what mother is doing that her
developing brain stores a myriad of experiences, called
patterns of behavior. These experiences can be thought
of as thousands of tiny short-run movies that are filed
in the infant's neurological library to be rerun when
baby is exposed to a similar situation that reminds her
of the making of the original "movie." For example,
mothers often tell me, "As soon as I pick up the sling
and put it on, my baby lights up and raises his arms as
if in anticipation that he will soon be in my arms and
in my world."
I have noticed that sling babies seem more attentive,
clicking into adult conversations as if they were part
of it. Babywearing enhances speech development. Because
baby is up at voice and eye level, he is more involved
in conversations. He learns a valuable speech lesson –
the ability to listen.
Normal ambient sounds, such as the noises of daily
activities, may either have learning value for the
infant or disturb him. If baby is alone, sounds may
frighten him. If baby is worn, these sounds have
learning value. The mother filters out what she
perceives as unsuitable for the baby and gives the
infant an "It's okay" feeling when he is exposed to
unfamiliar sounds and experiences.